
Before I write my ideas here on how to help lift a few stresses off the chest of the teachers who are feeling the pinch, let me just say this;
RIGHT UP FRONT WHERE IT BELONGS….
SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP ….IF YOU OR SOMEONE YOU LOVE NEEDS SUPPORT – AS EARLY AS YOU CAN! THAT SAID.
There are many ways for you devoted teachers and educators to protect your emotional currency and avoid emotional overload. Avoid the repercussions of unchecked stress because unchecked stress can cause devastating damage to the ongoing wellbeing of anyone experiencing it. There are many experts to “Google” or research that have far more knowledge on this topic than I do, but I have a few favourite ideas that may help the average Jo to avoid burnout. These include getting adequate rest, some form of meditation, engaging in hobbies, prioritisation of commitments and keeping a good routine, keeping a positive mindset, walking or engaging in adequate physical activity and giving in to a little humour. I feel that if we are trying to teach tools that encourage resilience, we better be prepared to use them. I’m a fan of “putting something in the pot” to balance the emotional dollars being taken out. Overload and burnout are common problems that teachers (and many other people who work with a lot of personalities each day) have to handle. I wonder often if some more mentoring could help this, especially for new or struggling employees. It seems a terrible shame for those who have chosen an amazing profession to be leaving because it just hasn’t met their expectations or because they have not had the mentoring or support they need. There is no doubt that change is on the horizon to help us all cope better but in the meantime – perhaps there are ways we can help ourselves in this – yes – challenging – but highly rewarding career – educating our young.
So are we practising what we teach?
I have made myself work on resilience skills since I began teaching. In my second year, I enrolled in a community-run workshop on managing stress as a young teacher. There are plenty around, from your local yoga or meditation instructor to a counselling instructor, or relaxation advisor. I like a little bit of solo meditation in the garden or in a quiet reading room. I like to keep it simple.
Hobbies are under-rated. I’ve had several over the years, and I admit it is challenging to find the time to work on them when there are competing needs other than your own – like family and a career, but it’s worth the effort. It certainly adds some fullness to ‘the pot’, and if attending hobby related workshops, it can help to socialise with like-minded friends that aren’t teachers or educators, we all need a break from time to time.
At the moment – I draw for relief from the everyday hassles of life – I’m no Frida Kahlo – but the repetition and mindless strokes take me somewhere else.
I think we all need that.
I think if we can compartmentalise, prioritise and develop sound routines in our lives it helps when managing stress and overload. Lists and Checklists can help keep our lives in balance and order. I keep sensible routines, put things into categories and prioritise;
A bit like this;
Things that are important that I need to do right now,
Things that are important that can wait a day or two,
Things I need to do – that can wait – timeframe recorded,
Things I want to do – that will keep me sane (sometimes this one needs to be moved higher up the list),
Things I should or could do.
You get the picture.
When dealing with people (colleagues, professionals, parents, and students) I find challenging – I have a mindset that helps me. I try and think of all people as family and then I never feel angry, disappointed or bothered for long. I try and remember we all come from differing perspectives, lifestyles and circumstances and as such should be considered with compassion and respect. These ideas help me to leave more in the pot, to begin with, nothing is ever “really” personal, it’s more about considering everyone else’s feelings too.
Who doesn’t like a good comedy to lift the spirits?
I love a good movie, am a sucker for a romantic comedy and just love to laugh. You can ‘literally’ feel the stress lift off the chest when laughter kicks in. I highly recommend finding ways to laugh – a lot.
When all else fails – (or preferably before then), it’s helpful to talk to some someone trusted; to a mentor, a colleague, a friend or family member, a doctor or another professional. Sometimes life does seem to come ‘at us’ all at once, and occasionally, there are issues that are ‘difficult to get past’ and when this happens – help should be sought. I certainly don’t have all the answers for this, and there are organisations that are there to help when it is clear that things are getting you way down.
(If you or anyone you know is suffering and you feel may need urgent help – call 000) or see the emergency list below from The Black Dog Institute.
A List from Black Dog of Emergency Help Optionshttps://www.blackdoginstitute.org.au/getting-help/emergency

